Happy Solstice!

It’s hard to believe that it’s here! –  the famous Solstice of 2012, the End of the Mayan Calendar, the end of a 26,000 year cycle and beginning of a new one.

I’m hearing from so many trusted spiritual guides that we have an opportunity during these days – between Dec. 20th and 23rd – to release a lot of our “old baggage” and absorb some high-level energies that will allow us to move into a higher dimension.

I know you and I were born for that purpose. I know that you and I have been waiting for lifetimes for this opportunity.

And yet I also know that it’s not so easy to just say “Yes” when opportunity knocks. It’s not so easy to know HOW to go through that door

In my teleseminar last week on “Birthing Your Sacred Work: Finding Your Calling” (and thank you, all who attended and helped make it such a success!) – I described you to yourself  this way (see if you recognize yourself):

“You feel called to make a difference in the world and maybe even to contribute to global awakening. You know it’s time for some kind of transformation in the world and in yourself. You long to find your own sacred work, something you can devote your life to that would make a real contribution and give your life meaning, joy, and fulfillment.

But you have difficulty getting your gifts into the world.  You often lack confidence in the value of what you have to offer. 

You may have felt stuck and dissatisfied for years, but you’re determined to break through that now! You can no longer stand the pain of ignoring this inner prompting. You sometimes fear “dying with your music still in you.” You are determined to finally live your purpose!”

If that sounds at all like you, then this is truly the time you’ve been waiting for. It’s the time when there’s more spiritual help available on the planet than ever before,helping you make that inner and outer shift.

And it’s the time when the world NEEDS your gifts more than ever before!

I’ve been on the same journey you’re on. And we’ve arrived at this incredible moment in human history, together!

If you’d like to explore how to finally walk through that door that’s being opened for all of us, please contact me. This opportunity is too important and too precious to waste! 

To help you take advantage of this powerful opportunity, I am happy to make available to you a *free* Sacred Work Discovery Session – now, for the first time with a bonus Mini-Akashic Record Reading included . 

In this session you will turn up the light of your inspiration, identify what has been holding you back and what to do about it, and get clear about your next steps.

To apply for a free Discovery Session plus mini-Akashic Record reading, just click on this link:  http://workwithTomar.com

Are you as excited as I am about the huge energy portal being opened? Are you as excited as I am about the new world that is approaching?

Are you willing to make YOUR personal contribution to help bring this new world into being?

I hope you say YES!

Akashic Records – Live Your Purpose

We look into the hearts of you reading this message and see that there is fear and concern on the topic of purpose. There is fear of failing, of getting it wrong, of missing the mark. There is fear of disappointment and dissatisfaction. There is even resentment that you may have to change your life, that you will be told that your current life is not adequate in some way, that you will be judged.

And we also see that there is great longing, great desire and intensity, and great love. And all of this love, longing, desire, and intensity revolve around the reason you are here. It is the calling card of your soul, if you will, announcing itself to you. letting you not feel content until you are reaching for the goal that your soul is here to attain.

Goal is perhaps the wrong word, for it is not an end-point you seek, but a state of continual flow and growth in the direction of being more fully who you are. That is all we mean by purpose. Being yourself in your entirety. What is the pathway toward more full realization of yourself? It is unique for each one. And it is never just for yourself alone.

You have encoded within your hearts, each of you, an image and a vibration which is the signal for what you seek. That image, that sound, that energy – it can take many  forms – are how you recognize what is familiar to your soul, what is calling to you.  When you meet that, something in you is awakened. Notice when this happens, and pay attention.

Notice when you feel called, when you feel the stirring of a great desire, a great love, a great longing. These are signals from your soul that you are getting closer. Trust and cherish these feelings that speak the language of the heart. It is through your heart that you hear the subtle communications of your soul nudging you in the direction of greater joy.

This is what we call your purpose – when you are living more fully in all the areas of your soul’s potential. Usually in life your soul remains a closed bud, of unfulfilled potential. When the bud  finally opens a beautiful flower emerges. And then even the flower gives way to the fullness of the fruit. Allow this process, until you become the fruiting of your soul.

Akashic Records – What is Success?

We are excited to be addressing you on the topic of success. That may surprise you but we may define success a little differently. In actuality what we see is the destiny of each soul, their journey, and the unnecessary struggling that so often takes place as souls lose their connection to their true self.

That is the primary purpose of life on earth – to reclaim that connection, and to uplift all with you. When you are firmly rooted in your true identity questions of success are not the issue so much as What does it really take to give all I came to give? How can I serve the highest purpose of my soul and of Life?

Where do you take your next step and who are the sacred partners of your co-emerging? That is the path and those are the questions before you. Where do I go? Who am I to serve? With whom will I travel? Why am I here? 

It is a beautiful time on earth when more souls are waking up to these questions and putting them first, even before material success.  Be assured that as you enter into your path of purpose, all else will follow. It must. You are here to complete cycles, to step into higher currents of your self-expression. The old models you have for so-called success are puny, I assure you, compared to the joy and fullness of life that await you as you are ready to move into them. 

All this and more can be yours in your life time if you dare to reach for it and not “settle” for what your world has held up as success. Go further. There is more! 

What Does It Take to Succeed? The 3 Keys of Success.


I’ve been thinking a lot about what it takes to succeed. Perhaps you have too.

And I’ve come to certain conclusions. Some I’ve known for a long time, some are new awarenesses. I want to share some of these with you now.


Here are the basics:

  • Purpose. When you connect to the deepest motivation of your being, the thing you were born to do, to be, to give – you actually turn on the power source within you that will propel you forward beyond all obstacles. When you really “get” what your inner purpose is, and say Yes to it, you will start the process of aligning your energy, heart, mind, and actions around that forward momentum, to become unstoppable. When your actions line up with your soul’s reason for taking form, doors  open  for you, synchronicities show up, and your path is made clear. Because your soul is on board, the spiritual realms open up to help you. It’s a magical experience!
  • Clearing Blocks. However, most of us have all kinds of resistance, fears, doubts, hesitations, or reasons why we think we can’t or shouldn’t go forward, even if we know our purpose. We make things hard for ourselves. We each have our personal bag of “stuff” that we drag around with us, that defines who we think we are. Our “stuff” keeps us stuck in the same old place no matter how much we try to change. If we do not do the work to clear those blocks, we will continue to walk in circles, in our familiar limited patterns. The good news is, it is possible to clear them – if you know how.
  • Vision Plan. Once you know your purpose and clear your blocks, you need a concrete vision to bring into manifestation. You must take the high inspiration of your purpose and ground it in reality, by seeing the possibilities for living it in the world. From those possibilities, you must identify and choose the one that calls to you most, commit to it, and start taking actions. This is where you shift from Inner to Outer Action. And once you commit to engaging in action, there are pathways to follow and secrets to learn. The main secret that I have learned is this: Don’t give up!

Those are the Big Three, the central Keys to Success. Without any of them, you won’t get very far. Without clearing your blocks, you will continually stumble. Without a clear vision and plan, you won’t have a map or a destination. And without aligning with what your soul is here to do, you may achieve surface success, but it won’t be satisfying.

There are many other specifics that may be relevant to your personal success. For me, some of them have been deciding that it’s really okay to live on the Earth plane, and being willing to cooperate with the laws of physical reality  – for instance, those irksome limits of time and space. That includes clearing clutter, keeping agreements with myself, showing up in a responsible way.

For you those particulars may be different. We each have our history, our self-images, our lifelong limiting beliefs, and they all come up to be worked on and cleared when our goal is to bring our purpose and vision into manifestation. In fact, there is no more intense or accelerated path to self-growth and personal transformation – I highly recommend it!

Another thing I highly recommend for each of those steps is that you have a guide or wise companion. The habits of the ego will just not let us take certain steps if left to our familiar self.

I would love to be your guide on your journey towards inner and outer success.

If you would like to engage in a process of discovery to see where you are in relation to the Big Three – give me a call and we can talk – for free. You can easily contact me here.