Happy Solstice!

It’s hard to believe that it’s here! –  the famous Solstice of 2012, the End of the Mayan Calendar, the end of a 26,000 year cycle and beginning of a new one.

I’m hearing from so many trusted spiritual guides that we have an opportunity during these days – between Dec. 20th and 23rd – to release a lot of our “old baggage” and absorb some high-level energies that will allow us to move into a higher dimension.

I know you and I were born for that purpose. I know that you and I have been waiting for lifetimes for this opportunity.

And yet I also know that it’s not so easy to just say “Yes” when opportunity knocks. It’s not so easy to know HOW to go through that door

In my teleseminar last week on “Birthing Your Sacred Work: Finding Your Calling” (and thank you, all who attended and helped make it such a success!) – I described you to yourself  this way (see if you recognize yourself):

“You feel called to make a difference in the world and maybe even to contribute to global awakening. You know it’s time for some kind of transformation in the world and in yourself. You long to find your own sacred work, something you can devote your life to that would make a real contribution and give your life meaning, joy, and fulfillment.

But you have difficulty getting your gifts into the world.  You often lack confidence in the value of what you have to offer. 

You may have felt stuck and dissatisfied for years, but you’re determined to break through that now! You can no longer stand the pain of ignoring this inner prompting. You sometimes fear “dying with your music still in you.” You are determined to finally live your purpose!”

If that sounds at all like you, then this is truly the time you’ve been waiting for. It’s the time when there’s more spiritual help available on the planet than ever before,helping you make that inner and outer shift.

And it’s the time when the world NEEDS your gifts more than ever before!

I’ve been on the same journey you’re on. And we’ve arrived at this incredible moment in human history, together!

If you’d like to explore how to finally walk through that door that’s being opened for all of us, please contact me. This opportunity is too important and too precious to waste! 

To help you take advantage of this powerful opportunity, I am happy to make available to you a *free* Sacred Work Discovery Session – now, for the first time with a bonus Mini-Akashic Record Reading included . 

In this session you will turn up the light of your inspiration, identify what has been holding you back and what to do about it, and get clear about your next steps.

To apply for a free Discovery Session plus mini-Akashic Record reading, just click on this link:  http://workwithTomar.com

Are you as excited as I am about the huge energy portal being opened? Are you as excited as I am about the new world that is approaching?

Are you willing to make YOUR personal contribution to help bring this new world into being?

I hope you say YES!

Akashic Records – Live Your Purpose

We look into the hearts of you reading this message and see that there is fear and concern on the topic of purpose. There is fear of failing, of getting it wrong, of missing the mark. There is fear of disappointment and dissatisfaction. There is even resentment that you may have to change your life, that you will be told that your current life is not adequate in some way, that you will be judged.

And we also see that there is great longing, great desire and intensity, and great love. And all of this love, longing, desire, and intensity revolve around the reason you are here. It is the calling card of your soul, if you will, announcing itself to you. letting you not feel content until you are reaching for the goal that your soul is here to attain.

Goal is perhaps the wrong word, for it is not an end-point you seek, but a state of continual flow and growth in the direction of being more fully who you are. That is all we mean by purpose. Being yourself in your entirety. What is the pathway toward more full realization of yourself? It is unique for each one. And it is never just for yourself alone.

You have encoded within your hearts, each of you, an image and a vibration which is the signal for what you seek. That image, that sound, that energy – it can take many  forms – are how you recognize what is familiar to your soul, what is calling to you.  When you meet that, something in you is awakened. Notice when this happens, and pay attention.

Notice when you feel called, when you feel the stirring of a great desire, a great love, a great longing. These are signals from your soul that you are getting closer. Trust and cherish these feelings that speak the language of the heart. It is through your heart that you hear the subtle communications of your soul nudging you in the direction of greater joy.

This is what we call your purpose – when you are living more fully in all the areas of your soul’s potential. Usually in life your soul remains a closed bud, of unfulfilled potential. When the bud  finally opens a beautiful flower emerges. And then even the flower gives way to the fullness of the fruit. Allow this process, until you become the fruiting of your soul.

Akashic Records – What is Success?

We are excited to be addressing you on the topic of success. That may surprise you but we may define success a little differently. In actuality what we see is the destiny of each soul, their journey, and the unnecessary struggling that so often takes place as souls lose their connection to their true self.

That is the primary purpose of life on earth – to reclaim that connection, and to uplift all with you. When you are firmly rooted in your true identity questions of success are not the issue so much as What does it really take to give all I came to give? How can I serve the highest purpose of my soul and of Life?

Where do you take your next step and who are the sacred partners of your co-emerging? That is the path and those are the questions before you. Where do I go? Who am I to serve? With whom will I travel? Why am I here? 

It is a beautiful time on earth when more souls are waking up to these questions and putting them first, even before material success.  Be assured that as you enter into your path of purpose, all else will follow. It must. You are here to complete cycles, to step into higher currents of your self-expression. The old models you have for so-called success are puny, I assure you, compared to the joy and fullness of life that await you as you are ready to move into them. 

All this and more can be yours in your life time if you dare to reach for it and not “settle” for what your world has held up as success. Go further. There is more! 

Are You Living A SECRET LIFE?

Did you ever have a film crew invade your home? Well, I just had that experience.

Last weekend 20th Century Fox took over my Upper Manhattan street with movie trucks, trailers, and a swarm of intensely focused people.

They were filming The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, with Sean Penn and Ben Stiller (no, I didn’t see either of them). It’s based on a short story that you may have read in high school, about a man who seeks escape from his humdrum existence with fantasies of derring-do in which he casts himself as the hero.

In James Thurber’s amusing tale, Walter Mitty is as ineffectual in real life as he is heroic in his daydreams.

This got me thinking about the role of fantasy in my own life. 

It’s hard to admit, but I often have a tendency to project my plans and visions onto the future. The result is that I feel inspired and optimistic, while keeping my dreams safely at a distance. I can convince myself this future will come to pass, but for now I don’t have to take action.

It’s as though creating the vision and feeling the excitement is enough. And besides, I get so many great ideas – which one should I pursue?

Does this ever happen to you? Do you, like me, sometimes find it easier to think, plan, vision and dream than to act?

I think this is true of many creative people. And a lot of entrepreneurs, too. We come up with idea after idea. We open ourselves to inspiration and receive amazing “spiritual downloads.” But we may not be so grounded in the physical realm. It’s often easier and more fun to stay “up there” – am I right?

It’s only recently that I started using the word “fantasy” for this tendency I have.“Fantasy” does not have as nice a connotation as “vision” or “inspiration.” But if the vision never takes form, while I keep convincing myself I will do it soon, then it could be called a fantasy.

When I first confronted myself with this word, it stung a little. But it also brought much-needed clarity to something I had not been looking at.

I don’t want my creative visions to be my “secret life” – do you?  I don’t want to pretend to myself I’m really “going to do it,” all the while avoiding the real life risks that I’m afraid of. That fear is one of the largest factors in keeping action frozen and allowing fantasy to lull me into false complacency.

If you have a “secret life,” it may mean you have visions you’ve not known how to bring into manifestation. It may mean you don’t believe you can stretch that far, and be the person you’d have to be to live them. It may mean that your inner desires are at odds with your image of yourself or what you, or anyone you know, has done so far.

Your secret life may be a dream you haven’t ever spoken to another soul. Maybe you’ve not even fully admitted it to yourself – yet.

Moving from dreams to creating a new reality is not so easy. I won’t pretend it is. But here’s what I know: you CAN truly become the hero or heroine of your own life. It’s a process and there are steps. 

The most important steps are identifying your vision, knowing what actions to take, and starting to take them. 

For that it helps a whole lot to have someone to guide you, to hold your hand, and to believe in your vision... to believe in you even more than you believe in yourself!

If you want to stop living a SECRET LIFE and start manifesting your dreams right here, right now, give me a call. It’s on me.

By the way,  I am currently offering a trio of sessions to help you identify your Vision  – and to look at the first steps you need to take to make it a reality.

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